Before you can pick what to do first, you need to know what you really want. Most people struggle not because they lack time, but because they never got clear on their goals.

• Decide exactly what you want in each part of your life, and write it down. A goal that isn't written is just a wish.
• Give each goal a deadline. If it's a big goal, break it into smaller deadlines you can start on this week.
• List every step you'll need to take, then put the steps in order.
• Start acting on your plan right away, and do something toward it every day.

Being clear comes first. Once you know your goals, deadlines, and plan, it's much easier to see which task is your "frog" — the one to do first.