Psychology
Chatter
Ethan Kross, PhD
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A psychologist's research-based exploration of our inner voice — why it can spiral into unhelpful 'chatter', and concrete tools to quiet it.
Key takeaways
- The Voice in Your Head Is a Feature, Not a Bug
- Distanced Self-Talk Changes the Conversation
- Zooming Out Provides Perspective on Present Distress
- Environment and Rituals Support the Inner Voice
- Social Support Requires the Right Kind of Listening
- Building a Personal Toolkit From Multiple Techniques
Action checklist
- Practice 'distanced self-talk': address yourself by name or 'you' when working through a problem today
- Imagine advising a friend with your exact situation, then apply that advice to yourself
- Spend a few minutes in nature or looking at vastness (sky, ocean, a photo) today to shrink chatter
Final takeaway
His closing invitation: treat managing your inner voice as an ongoing practice of applying the right specific tool to the right situation, not a single fix applied once and forgotten.
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