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Personality Isn't Permanent
Psychology

Personality Isn't Permanent

Benjamin Hardy, PhD

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An organizational psychologist argues that personality is far more malleable than commonly believed, and can be deliberately reshaped to support your goals.

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Key takeaways

  • Personality Reflects Current Context and Choices Rather Than Fixed, Unchangeable Traits
  • Popular Personality Typing Frameworks May Inadvertently Reinforce Limiting Fixed Self-Concept
  • Deliberately Changing Your Environment and Context Can Genuinely Shift Personality-Related Patterns
  • Your Envisioned Future Self Can Actively Shape Present Personality-Related Choices and Behavior
  • Apply This Challenging Framework to Actively Shape Your Own Personality-Related Patterns Rather Than Accepting Them as Fixed

Action checklist

  • Write down one self-limiting story from your past you've been treating as a fixed personality trait
  • Define your 'future self' for one specific area of life, in concrete detail
  • Take one action today that's consistent with your future self, not your past self

Final takeaway

Hardy's closing invitation: apply the book's challenging framework consistently to actively shape your own personality-related patterns — deliberately changing your environment and context, and envisioning your desired future self — rather than passively accepting current patterns as simply fixed, unchangeable personality traits.

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