Memoir
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes
Caitlin Doughty
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A mortician's candid, often humorous memoir exploring death, dying, and the death care industry, aiming to reduce cultural fear and denial around mortality.
Key takeaways
- A Mortician's Unflinching Perspective
- How Hidden Death Care Increases Anxiety
- Direct Engagement Reduces Fear
- Death Practices Are Culturally Specific, Not Universal
- Humor as Respectful Accessibility
- The Death Positive Movement
Final takeaway
Have one honest conversation about death and end-of-life wishes with a family member, rather than avoiding the topic indefinitely — Doughty's consistent argument throughout the book is that this kind of direct, honest engagement, however uncomfortable it might initially feel, tends to reduce rather than increase anxiety, while also ensuring genuine end-of-life wishes are actually known and can be honored.
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